Tharika

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I don't think you really want to subject yourself to what she's offering. This is not how one shows another respect and consideration. If someone knows what a great person you are and truly values you and your well-being, she will not subject you to her angst & melancholy when she knows that she's not going to do anything to move out of them. Getting serious with someone else? Maybe the one meaningful gift you could give her would be to refuse to play her game, to refuse to validate her screwed-up approach to relationships & her emotions. What would you get out of it? If she's so helpless and lacking in self-awareness that she's not even aware of what she's doing to you, you won't be able to help her see the light. In my book that's emotional exploitation. Say the two of you maintain a "friendship" -- would she be able to deal with you dating other women? If you got serious about someone would she be supportive and happy for your happiness, or would she try to sabotage your new relationship? And ultimately, what will she get out of it -- besides your technical assistance -- if you allow her fears & doubts to define your relationship? In fact, I very much doubt that you will be able to help her see the light under any circumstances. She's stuck in limbo, so you should be too? For that matter, could you handle her dating other men? If she's so self-absorbed that the fact that she's taking advantage of your love for her doesn't bother her, you still won't be able to help her see the light.

Anymore of nerd cutie righty?!

If she doesn't comply with any of these terms, you are better off cutting her loose.

I see her once a week Why do you say she doesn’t have it with me? How do not make myself too available?

If the world were to change its mindset on a lot of the stupid stuff it lets concern it, it would be a bit more tolerant and happy place.

This includes watching t.v., hanging out with the guys, playing video games, anything to get their minds off their problems so they can get back to focus, alone, on their problems. When they distance themselves, the book calls it, they go into their "caves". This happens over & over & they just get closer & closer. They do this even on a daily basis just to solve their problems. Here's another thing from that wonderful book: it says men are like rubber bands. They distance themselves from the relationship to feel independent & secure. After they've done this (without being disturbed), they come back & act more loving.

Working makin $$$ .. Luv smoking weed making music and drawing.. I also luv writing!!! I play the. I'm 20. Was born in Oakland.. Strictly Lesbian stud .. Single until someone changes that...

I am looking for friends, relationship or fun. I am really not fussy. Older women are my preference thoug. Hi.